How to Handle CONFLICT

Spot It

Conflict happens. Spotting it is essential, and it’s not always obvious. But when you instantly spot it, you’ve set yourself up to Win the Moment — opening the door to a grand

Flip It

Does your first reaction come from anger or fear? When you learn to flip a disrespect, you rob disrespect of its power & automatically invite allies.

Stick the Landing

You Stick the Landing by granting dignity, the prerogative of royalty.

When you do, others cannot help but admire you. Respect you. Connect with you.

About Dorothy

Prevailing wisdom says to cool off, get calm, discuss the problem … seek common ground and about 37 more things .. to either do or avoid … after the conflict has happened.

Can anyone even remember all those steps?

Neuroscience says no. The reality is … conflict is fast. It starts in a flash and all who live it (or witness it) instantly know who’s won the moment.

Conflict springs from our survival brain, the most primitive part of you. But with my fast-action, respect-based approach, you’ll learn how to resolve almost any conflict in seconds, while leaving the other person with enough dignity to CONNECT & RESPECT you more than ever.


What Our Customers Are Saying

The women I work with are amazing and delighted with the results they’ve achieved. #Proud

“I never realized how much power I had within. The change is dramatic and has helped me more than I could ever have even fathomed possible. I am more assertive and regularly set and achieve goals that I would have never dreamed possible.”
Rachel Cohen Miller

Attorney at Law, Mom & Legal Shero

“My special needs son inspired me to run for the Texas House. With Dorothy’s help I honed my message and got effective in front of a crowd and a camera. My opponent told me I was the only opponent she’d ever respected.”
Emy Lyons

Nurse, Candidate for Office

“I only had a vague idea of what I wanted from life and I now know exactly what I want to do and the steps I must take to have the life I had only dreamed of! I feel better, more like myself, more positive, more optimistic!”
Terri Wilson

Teacher, Adventurer

Winning Formula

Do you feel shocked by bad behavior … or unwarranted words? Perhaps bewildered, frustrated or angry that someone could do (or say) such a thing? Do you wonder “what could that so-&-so be thinking?!” … all the while sure that it can’t be good? 

Do you blame or shame the conflict-initiating person, or want to? Do you wonder why on-lookers didn’t help out? Do you catch yourself blaming yourself for having frozen, or for feeling shocked … or for not having “handled it”? 

Do you feel frustrated (or mad all over again), when minutes or even hours after an insult or inappropriate remark … you still find yourself replaying the incident over & over again? Not enjoying your evening? Complaining (or even snapping) at a friend or loved-one? Tossing, turning, hardly sleeping?

Let's Work Together

Having the skill to win the tough moments while gaining allies? PRICELESS.

Contact Dorothy to find out how you can move forward, stress less and achieve more.

A complimentary call is an important starting step to uncover where you are now, and how to lead in the toughest of situations and be admired for how you pull it off.

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